We all know kids with undefined Emotional Solar Plexus energy Centres.
It’s worth knowing that 50% of kids have their Emotional Solar Plexus (ESP) centre undefined – 50% of everyone have their ESP undefined!
When the centre is white it’s undefined, often referred to as open.
Let’s take a look at what that means with regard to how they feel emotionally and how the timing around decisions affects them.
They feel the emotions of others.
These kids are constantly taking in other people’s emotions.
Which is all fun & games when the folk around them are high on their Emotional waves. But not so much when they’re low.
These kids, take in the emotions of those around them & feel them even more than the person who’s actually experiencing them as their own.
When they’re little, they can behave in all kinds of emotional ways…but it’s not THEIR emotions they’re experiencing. It’s coming from outside of them.
This can affect their sleep, especially if they’re sleeping in a room with an emotionally defined sibling or parent.
It can affect their playtime, mealtimes…any time.
They will often be affected by others fighting around them.
When someone else feels down or anxious or even depressed, they feel it. Big…
After a day at school or out in the big wide world our emotionally open kids are emotionally spent…overwhelmed. Unable to cope with anymore of anyone elses’ “stuff”. Unable to take anymore emotional energy into their little ESPs.
Make sure your emotionally open kids get time on their own or even better, out in nature, to discharge this energy from their bodies.
As they get bigger, it can affect the way they interact with others. Always tip toeing around trying not to upset anyone. Because they know all too well what happens when someone else is upset…they feel it…AMPLIFIED.
It’s very easy for emotionally open kids to become people pleasers. And of course, this often flows on to adulthood.
And help them to recognise that the way they feel emotionally has so much to do with whom they’re with. Getting out of someone elses low vibrating emotional aura is a perfectly acceptable and often necessary thing to do.
One of the most effective things you can do for your kids, whether Emotionally undefined or not, is to teach them this little clearing practice. It’s called 27 breaths and it’s easy, fun and relaxing for kids to learn. It’s a great introduction to mindfulness practices and, it clears out all that pent up energy from others in no time flat (actually in 27 breaths but that’s only a couple of minutes!
Here’s a video to show you how to do it. 27 Breaths Energy Clearing Technique
Try it out. It can be life changing for you as well as your kids!
They know what’s right for them in the moment
If your child or a child you care for, teach or know has their Emotional Solar Plexus centre undefined/white they know what’s right for them in the moment.
They don’t need time to decide if they really want that toy from the toy shop when they see it. They are designed to know their truth in the moment.
They will know if they like a food or a friend or a teacher or a school straight away.
As they get older and start making important decisions about their future, there’s little point in suggesting they take their time with deciding.
Providing they’re using the Human Design strategy that’s correct for their type, what they feel now is what is right for them.
That’s not to say that they won’t change their mind later. That may well happen. It often depends on what else is in their chart as to whether there will be change down the track (open G centres and 3rd lines for a start). But it will be correct for them now in this part of their life’s trajectory.
Imagine how useful understanding this piece about their energy will be for them as adults.
If they get a job offer, they’ll know immediately whether they should take it. Love at first sight is definitely within the realms of possibility. A last minute opportunity to travel is either a yes or no right then and there…and whatever feels right IS right (always deferring to strategy of course!).
Understanding how you and your kids are designed to make decisions is one of the many gifts that Human Design can give you and your family.
If you’re wondering about Emotionally Defined kids, check out this post to learn more
Love Ros xx
To learn more check out these episodes of the Essential Oils by Design Podcast (also available on all the major podcasting platforms.
Living with an open Emotional Solar Plexus – Google podcasts
Living with an open Emotional Solar Plexus – Apple podcasts
Dealing with Emotions Depending on your Human Design type – Google podcasts
Dealing with Emotions Depending on your Human Design type – Apple podcasts